Parent Empowerment and Support

Tatori Method 2

The number one predictor of success…

Since we started tracking outcomes in 2013, 92% of Parents/Families who learn simple, yet empowering, communication with their young adult child end up with sustainable long-term successful outcomes.

Sadly, the success rate drops to 5% when parents cannot change their need to “helicopter,” be their child’s BFF or to control their young adult and/or life coaching staff from afar. It drops when parents enable and rescue their young adult by cutting the process short before students have shown they are ready through their actions. Much like learning to ride a bike, falling and getting a skinned knee is part of the process of normal life. If parents provide financial safety nets or focus on rescuing their adult child from life’s rites of passages, the chance of success is low.

Parent Empowerment Courses Offered By Pacia Life

Parent Empowerment Course #1
Parent Empowerment Course #1Empowering Parents to Empower Their Adult Child
During these six pre-scheduled sessions, parents do the foundational work necessary to prepare to positively change their relationship with their adult child forever.
Parent Empowerment Course #2
Parent Empowerment Course #2The Tatori Method
During these two to four scheduled sessions, parents and family members go through a simplified version of the Tatori Method for themselves and how it applies to their relationship with their adult child.
Parent Empowerment Course #3
Parent Empowerment Course #3The Investor Relationship
During these three to six sessions, a Life Coach will guide each adult through a new way of communication. This includes reporting personal progress to one another, with the intention of the coach being able to back out of these conversations in the future. Parents and their adult children will learn “essentialism” and focus of what to discuss, what to invest in, when to help, and when to stay out of the way.

Pacia Life Parent Empowerment Coaches

Parent Coach Professionals provide parents specific guidance through a strength-based approach to help empower their young adult children; and expect them to live up to their potential. They will help guide you through some simple, yet powerful paradigm shifts that must take place in our young adults so they can find their self-efficacy and inner strength. Parent Coaches also provide support, guidance, and encouragement for parents who are navigating their way through an experience that is unfamiliar and challenging.
Our team of credentialed coaches is seasoned, and uniquely familiar with the struggles parents face as they strive to understand and embrace the goals of the Pacia Life experience while learning to develop new and distinctive parenting roles with their adult children.
Parent Coach Professionals (click here to learn more) provides interactive phone sessions to assist with improving communication skills, establishing healthy age-appropriate boundaries, exploring parenting patterns, gaining a clearer understanding of learning styles and academic challenges, and preparing parents for visits, workshops and each phase of transition.

As a young adult life coaching experience, we work with our students much like an employer or a college campus would with their adults. Even if a parent is paying for the tuition for college, the ‘updates’ on how the student is doing on homework, attendance, grades, etc. primarily comes from the college student themselves and not from the professors.

As a young adult life coaching experiences, we treat our students much like an employer or a college campus would work with their adults. Even if a parent is paying for the tuition for college, the ‘updates’ on how the student is doing on homework, attendance, grades, etc. primarily comes from the college student themselves and not from the professors.

Pacia Life is a “Life Coaching” experience designed to help young adults find their independence in one or more of our five different tracks. Sometimes, parents who have had children in treatment centers, mistakenly try to treat Pacia Life as a treatment center.

Students are allowed to have full communication with parents, family, friends, etc. unless there is a specific safety related concern where communication needs to be temporally suspended.

Parents are welcome to communicate directly with their young adult child anytime, ask questions, etc. However, we ask that parents refrain from hearing a concern from their child and then calling Pacia to fix the problem for their child. (It is O.K. for a parent to pass on information to Pacia Life Coaches so they can be aware and follow up as needed.) It is not O.K. to call and expect Pacia Life staff to drop what they are doing to solve a perceived problem for your young adult child. This is a sure sign of harming the grit and resiliency of young adults trying to achieve sustainable self-reliance. In fact, parents who do this are sending a strong message that they don’t believe in their own child’s ability to be solution focused and to troubleshoot conflict.

‘Helicopter Parenting’ has proved to set students up for regression, more than any other type of parenting. Parents often think they are helping. When in reality, they are innocently causing harm.

Imagine if your adult child is struggling at work and he/she calls you to call her boss for her to resolve the issue. As an adult, this is something that they must solve on his/her own. To reach the goal of Sustainable Self-Reliance in all areas of life, they must learn to: resolve conflicts, stay solution focused, and learn to overcome setbacks without a parent rescuing them. The struggles our young adults go through are what create the in the moment, real life teaching opportunities for our staff to coach from.

If it is truly a 911 type emergency, then please have your young adult child call 911 and then notify Pacia Life Coaches once Emergency Responders are on the way.

Parent Empowerment Topics

  • • Working through Latency Issues in Young Adulthood. Understanding this generation’s strengths and some of the unique challenges.
  • • Resiliency: the “R” in GRIT and how to empower success
  • • Yours: iY or Millennial—How to shift YOUR parenting mind
  • • Academics for Career, or Career Training for Employment?
  • • Definitions of Dependence/Independence: Meeting Your Adult Son or Daughter’s Special Needs
  • Noting shifts of success, communication styles, and how it all impacts result’s orientated outcomes

Family empowerment is essential!

We need the support of the family.

Through the Tatori System, we are ambitiously determined
to empower young adults to live healthier and happier lives,
to release old behavioral patterns that no longer work,
to unleash their fullest potential –
to take control of their own sustainable self-reliance and
to live as a creator of their life.

Parent Outcome Studies Show…

Parents Who Empower Their Young Adults 92%
Parents Who Enable, Protect or Become a BFF 5%

Student Outcome Studies Show…

Take Responsibility – No Blame, No Diversions 80%
Willing to Work – 60 to 75 hours/week productive time 89%
Self-Discipline with Money – 80/20 Rule 86%
CEO/Investor Relationship 98%
Parent Empowerment